A girl I used to date is getting involved with someone else, and she seems thrilled about it. (I learned this via Facebook, of course.) On the one hand, I'm happy for her, because she's a really sweet person. But the unvirtuous part of me feels melancholy. It's not fair to react that way, since I can't maintain a relationship at the moment, and I wasn't able to when we were together, either. I need to "do me" and figure how to be okay on my own.
And yet... well, sometimes I'd rather have someone to cuddle with, you know? Blurgh. I guess I'll have to stick with my pets for now.
Awww sweetie, sorry to hear about the girl. That can be tough. ~hugs~
ReplyDeleteYour peter pan collar is lovely.
Yeah. . . I'll be fine though. Thanks for the hugs!
DeleteThe feelings will pass, as you may know. You seem to be pretty good at cheering yourself up, and we are all here for you of course. :)
ReplyDeleteIt helps to just talk about it and get some virtual hugs. So thank you!
DeleteAt least you look fabulous :) I am wishing you a great weekend!
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Hahaha, thanks! I hope you have a lovely weekend as well.
DeleteAnd yet you're the one with the super cute collar and belt!
ReplyDeleteGood things come to those who wait. Of course I believe you should add an, "and pray" to the end of that platitude. :)
Too right! Amen to that.
DeleteNever mind the melancholy - you have purple things and sparkly things *at the same time*. :-)
ReplyDeleteChin up, fellow adventurer. :-)
TRUE. And I have even more purple and sparkly things! Thanks, Syl.
DeleteI was told purple is the color for 2014, so you are good on that front, time heals.
ReplyDeleteYeah! "Radiant Orchid" to be specific, haha. Thanks.
DeleteIt's always difficult when the other person moves on faster than we do, but taking time for yourself now will benefit you so much in your next relationship. Sending good thoughts your way.
ReplyDeleteYou are absolutely right. Thank you!
DeleteLove this outfit; the belt, the purple and the collar are always fabulous features. I know it is really hard when one person is moving on at a different pace, I definitely think take comfort in the pets, they sure are the best friends.
ReplyDeleteThank you, dear! My bunnies and my dog are always helpful when I feel down--they're so sweet and funny.
DeleteIt's cool, brah. Totally natural, actually. I mean I don't know the circumstances surrounding the break up, but I can say that people respond to these sorts of things differently and the healing process can be short or lengthy depending on the individual. Apparently, she has moved on, but you're not ready yet. I'd say don't rush it. <3
ReplyDeleteOn a fashion note, I like the way you layered the cardigan with the dress. I almost thought that the cardigan had a collar on it. It's so cute! I'm diggin the polka dots, too! ^_^
- Anna
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